Friday, July 6, 2007

ESTABLISH YOUR OWN MOM'S GROUP


I'm not really sure how to go about telling other mom's about setting up something like we have been doing, except, that it is so beneficial, that you do.......
Just do it!
Gather together, a group of a few mom's who have gone through this and throw out your ideas about getting together.
As in my case,I just contacted those ladies I knew who had lost children, and invited them to my beach house in March.
You can contact a B&B ahead of time and rent a house for the weekend, or some other place, for a weekend.It doesn't matter where you are........
It's just that you do it, and get together and begin to heal......
and heal, you will!
It's important not to force your beliefs on the other mom's, but to let the healing take place on its own. My faith is so instrumental in me, that it shines through, and it does play a big part in each of these other ladies, which is probably why so much healing has taken place.
Give them time to talk about their child. That's why we have placed a special area up on the breakfront, where each mom can place their child's picture and other special "things."
We know that we can laugh and talk all weekend,if we want about our "sons", and no-one will fuss, and that's the healthy part.Then, we are recharged for a good while.
This has been an unbreakable bond for us, and I do hope some of you, who read this, will start your very own mom's group.
I hate that mom's have to do this, but I'd rather you do it with the support of other mom's nearby, than by yourself......
Go for it!
You can leave a comment to me here at this sight for more information.......
Becky